Topic No. 1: Life After the Wedding – the Married Life.

What are the things you want them to know about life after the wedding?

I have read several posts about this tag and most wives and mommies went on saying that the first years of marriage were major adjustment part, that marriage is no bed of roses, and that Aggie herself even wanted out while others even questioned if they made the right choice. As I told Aggie, mine is nowhere near these real life drama scenarios.

Believe it or not, I never adjusted to married life. And so does Jon, as he would always claim too. For some reasons, life after our wedding was what we envisioned it to be. We hardly fought, we hardly even argued. You might raise your eyebrows on me now but its the truth. Our friends would even brand us the “perfect couple” but seriously now, nothing and nobody is perfect and we definitely are not. We do have petty quarrels but trying to recall them now, they won’t even count to five. And the things we disagree about? You’d probably don’t want to know. Silly stuff like my plunging neckline blouses, my always being late, my being forgetful, his love for dogs and the like. No big issues at all which is why each disagreement doesn’t even end up as a real disagreement as we both would give in to each other’s wants at the end all the time. What he wants matters to me and what I want matters to him so whatever he wants, I am willing to give and vice versa. I must say now that compatibility is key. We probably are “perfectly compatible” to like and not like same things. Hence, no need for arguments. And as we always would tell each other, WE come first on each other’s list, not his family and not my family. Some might not get it but we perfectly do and it works for us – so far.

So here’s what Sophia needs to know:

Choose the right person to marry. Use your heart and your mind all at once. And once you marry that someone you cannot live without, make him your world and I’m sure he’ll make you his too.

Communication is key. Your dad and I talk about anything. I tell him everything and vice versa. It works for us and it should work for you and your husband too. We also take pleasure making “tsismis” to each other before going to bed every single day. Such little things matter you know. We are bestfriends too other than being husband and wife.

Keep the romance alive. If it fades, as others attest to, do everything to rekindle it. Getting out of the marriage shouldn’t be an option no matter how tough things may get. Work on it no matter how hard. Stay committed. After all, that’s a promise you made to each other infront of God so you should keep it.

Respect is very important. It is what will get you through in tough times.

And lastly, I fervently wish you find someone you are perfectly compatible with like I am with your dad.

I am probably the only person who doesn’t own an ipod these days. Boo. While the husband has two ipods, I can’t seem to figure why I need one for myself. First off, I am not into music, really. Boo again. I don’t know but for some reason, I am not fond of listening to any music at all. Well, I do listen once in a while and even have a couple of favorite songs but the “need” to have music all the time? No way! To tell you honestly, I can’t even blog while there’s music playing in the background. It distracts me. Weird huh?  So to those who are thinking of what to give me as gift either for my birthday or any upcoming occasions, don’t get me an ipod as it won’t serve me well.  Get me a bag instead or a make-up, LOL.

What’s the difference between a plasma and an LCD TV? To this day, I exactly don’t know, not even a clue. Having three LCDs at home (our room, Sophia’s room and the office), we never really bothered on asking. We were offered LCDs while inside a store and we gladly settled for them without bothering to inquire about plasmas.  Does any of you know?  Are we missing out on anything?

Ready, set, shop!

I am all set to shop for baby stuff as I have One Step Ahead coupons at my disposal. I am hoping to score really nice clothing items for both my little girl and my upcoming baby. If only I have bottomless funds, I would also get a new stroller now as I am one overly excited mommy. The husband is paying for that though so I have to wait until he gives me his go signal. In the meantime, I’ll plunge deep into shopping for kids apparel first. Wanna join me?

Thanks to Kathy for this.

1. complete this phrase: “if only i could..

:: have enough money, I will help everyone who is in need.

2. did you get enough sleep last night?

:: yes, I did

3. what were you doing before you slept last night?

::reading my daughter a book.

4. first thing you thought about this morning when you woke up?

:: blog!

5. do u ever wonder why the sky is blue?

:: not really, haha.

6.Did you ever try to skip meals?

:: yeah! a lot of times

7. lights on or off?

:: depends…

9. are you afraid of the dark?

:: sometimes
10. favorite hangout/s?

:: our bedroom
11. people you can’t live without?

:: my family
12. what are your plans for tonight?

:: same old same old…tuck the little girl to bed early

13. favorite song when you’re sleepy?

:: nothing!
14. Do you love someone, right now?
:: oh yes!
15. are you a giver or a taker?

:: taker haha
16. if you could choose another name,

what would it be?

::hmmm, Patricia maybe.
18. last text message from?

:: my driver.

20. stuck on a desert island & could

have only one KIND of food for the

rest of your life, what would it be?

:: Pork Sinigang!

21. favorite tv commercial/s?

:: any

22. if you were dead and your soul was

given another chance, what would you

do first?

::travel with my family

23. if you could choose your eye

color,what color would you like to

have?

:: Light brown

24. what are the things you always

bring?

:: phone, digital camera, wallet, brush, tissue, make up kit

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